I have heard many men complain about women.

I admit that I used to also complain.

I visited psychologists, counsellors and attended seminars to get answers to what is going on.

The answer that I so often got was that there was something wrong with the woman.

Most men may feel relieved to hear that.

Some of the complaints are that "she yells or screams at me." Further on in the conversation I usually hear more of what is really going on.

I can imagine how frustrating and infuriating it would be for the woman. She is attempting to communicate something to her man, and is not getting the response that she wants. She has tried many different ways and is now expressing herself full out.

A woman has a biological need for her man to be strong. She is equipped with the ability to bear children and is likely to test that her man is capable of playing his part in the family. She is likely to feel fear if he seems to be weak.

If the man becomes fearful because she feels fear, we have a vicious cycle of events that so often has the man leaving the relationship and claiming that his wife is crazy.